Quiet Times



I wanted to write about things that have helped me dive into God’s word during ‘Quiet Times’. This is my daily time of reading the bible and praying, a practice I learned shortly after I accepted Christ in college. This is not a post to share or brag about what a good person I must be for having quiet times, but simply to share things that have helped me over the past few years. I have had misconceptions about quiet times in the past, have come to times where I have gotten stuck and in a rut, and there have been seasons where I have been inconsistent or not had them at all. 

These last few weeks I have been digging deeper on what it looks like to not only ‘skim through’ God’s word (as I often do) but to receive all that God intended it to be. For it to be life-changing, mind-transforming, life-altering and everything else God promises it can be. I want that and often I don’t receive that and wonder why. Whether it’s that I’m too busy, inconsistent, etc- I want more of God and less of the world… and somehow I have ended up a little bit more on the worldly side. 

For the last few years I have my quiet times during my son’s afternoon naps. As they have gotten older their naps have turned into ‘quiet times’ for them to play in their room. Because as a friend recently shared- Jesus may have been a morning person, but I am definitely not a morning person! I have never been able to be consistent with getting up early in the morning before the day begins.

But over the last few months, afternoon quiet times haven’t been consistent and when we do have them- the kids always have to go #2. Like clockwork! It’s as if the word ‘go to your room’ triggers something in their brain to find a way to get out of it. Particularly my somewhat recently potty trained three year old who is still learning how to go to the bathroom.  This wasn’t working anymore and something needed to change! I was spending more time scrolling through my phone out of convenience rather than reading God’s word. And I have a feeling that excuse will not hold up in heaven.

As of a few weeks ago I decided to set my alarm for 6am to have a good uninterrupted quiet time. Although I haven’t been perfect, for the most part it has worked really well. My days are so much different when I make the effort to meet God before the day begins.

Here are some of the items I use read quiet times:

-         Jesus Calling Devotional- This is a short daily devotional with a ‘letter’ from God’s perspective and a few bible verses related to the devotional. It is a wonderful way to get started for the day!

-          Prayer Journal- I started mine in 2011 and continue to write in it. It looks very much like this one but in pink. You can make your own with a small three ring binder or buy a new one at this adorable etsy shop


 
-          Travel Bible and Celebrate Recovery Bible- Just the bibles I use. I love the CR bible because it has countless testimonies throughout.

-          Journal- Just a regular journal to write down thoughts for the day.

-          Gratitude Journal- I have started writing down things I’m thankful for at the end of the day again. (using just a small three ring binder).

-          Prayer Journal- A place where I take bible verses for each family member and write it out to pray over them. Or if I’m struggling in a certain area I will pick specific bible verses to pray over it.

I don’t go through all of these daily in case it seems like a lot of stuff. What has been the most helpful life changing thing for me recently has been using the SOAP method on a bible verse..

S: Scripture (write out the verse)
O: Observation (What are the facts observed from the verse)
A: Application (how does this apply to my life)
P: Prayer (Write out a short prayer based on the verse)

Although it takes more time, I have really enjoyed using the SOAP method. It has helped me tremendously in not just reading through something when I’m tired and groggy in the morning, but to really dive into God’s word.

If you have any suggestions on things that have helped you during quiet times I would love to hear it. Hope this post was helpful to you as well!